Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Snow White

Katrina has always been my fire ball. From the moment she was born she had energy to spare. If I was looking for her, I would look up because she invariably climbed up any pole or ladder she found.

When she was four years old I enrolled her in a swimming class in Japan. After 2 weeks, I had to take her out of the class. The instructor was frazzled. Her first day in class, Katrina jumped in the pool before the instructor could attach a life vest or explain anything about the water. A couple days later she attempted to jump in the deep end while the instructor was talking to the rest of the class. After a couple more mishaps, we knew she would need personal lessons from me to learn how to swim. She is an excellent swimmer today.

If there was something to organize, Katrina would do it. If there was something to be in charge of, Katrina would volunteer. She created
something if there was nothing to do.

When we arrived in Ghana, Kat was 8 years old. She managed to get the measles even though she had been inoculated as a baby. For some reason, she became extremely ill. The doctor treating her warned us she might not pull th
rough. I remember how quiet the house was during the two weeks she was so sick. I never thought I would be wishing for the noise which accompanied my daughter's entrance into a room or the constant motion she maintained as long as she was awake. When she was drifting in and out of unconsciousness, all I wanted was to have her leap from the bed and swing around the room. Thankfully, the day of her 9th birthday she began to pull out of the worst of the illness and the house immediately was restored to its chaotic balance.

Now my live wire is a twenty one year old woman. She continues to light up any room she walks in. "Kat" definitely has her finger in a million projects at once and yet somehow juggles everything with ease. Recently I sat through a remarkable performance she did at her University Talent show. Every year she does a
humorous take on a Disney song; this year she was Snow White. She had the entire auditorium laughing.

I laughed until tears streamed down my face. The laughter died down but the tears lingered as I realized she will graduate from University next year in May. After that, she plans to go to New Zealand..."For a year...or more...mom....".....sigh, she will take her energy with her. I will miss her horribly and yet I know this is all part of life. Children grow up, they learn to be independent and they live life to the fullest. This is the way it is supposed to be!


  1. hey look who Kat's mother is :) I am not surprised she brings joy and energy where she goes!

  2. You are fortunate to have her. Doubly fortunate because she's still around.

    My 18 year old has gone far to another country to study because what he wanted to pursue wasn't available in India. :(

  3. interesting....
    loving post.

    God bless

  4. Nisha- I agree with you- I can identify with you because when my son was 18 he was far from me-as I was in Ghana and he was in the States. I treasure the times I am able to be with my children.

    Sourav-thanks for commenting- I actually made a mistake when I posted this here- it was supposed to go on my personal blog- ha ha- old age makes one a bit mixed up!! :)

  5. awwww :)...she takes after her mom :)....she sounds as energetic as you...and daring. i still cannot forget the no man's land post...!!

  6. A- oh my, I wish I had half her energy.

  7. Such a lovely post...loved reading this:-))!!!!

    I have only one thing to say....long back I had read somewhere tht Children are a reflection of their parents. And Kat's mother is without a doubt really Special:-))!!!!


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